Have you ever watched a little boy walk behind his dad, trying to march in his footprints on the beach or stay within the shadow of his outline? It is so fascinating to watch as the little guy works so hard to make sure he is keeping up in every way.

What if your children follow you? I’m not talking about in the sand or shadows, but in life. If they went everywhere you went, would you be proud or embarrassed? If they listened in on your conversations and repeated what you said, would that be okay? What if they made decisions the way you did; would they reflect character and integrity or would they be filled with suspicion and shortcuts?

Many of you will be watching March Madness over the next few weeks. I am sure it will add a little excitement to your weekend because it can be a common denominator of discussion amongst friends and colleagues. In fact, it has been said that the real reason the President of the United States has changed his travel plans overseas is so that he and the travel correspondents can get in 40 or so basketball games. Whether that is true or not, I cannot confirm; I do however grasp the importance of sports in the lives of many dads.

I think it is great when fathers are involved with their children in any capacity. I find dads seem to enjoy watching their children participate in athletics especially. There are many reasons for this connection and it can be a wonderful bonding experience between a father and child.

There is a McDonald’s commercial which shows two parents racing to get to their house, competing to be the first to give their son his Happy Meal.  The dad hands it to the boy, thinking he will be the hero. The commercial ends with the boy saying, “Thanks, mom!” and the dad looking like he lost again.

While the commercial provides good humor, it also provokes some important questions:
Do you ever feel that way? Does it seem that no matter how much you do, you are invisible?

Hey Dads,

Welcome to your page on the Intentional Moms! website.  It is our hope that as you visit, you will feel encouraged, inspired and challenged to strengthen your role as a father and husband.  We also hope you always leave the site recognizing how important you are to your wife and children.